Posts Tagged ‘stay-in-touch’
Ok, this may seem radical to suggest, but . . . do you have someone you’ve known for awhile . . . in the course of your business . . . whom you haven’t spoken to in some time?
If so, may I suggest you re-connect with them? A phone call is best. An email will work, too. When you make contact, just ask:
• “How have you been?”
• “What’s happening in your world?”
• “What are you working on lately?”
• “How might I possibly help you?”
• “Who might I know that you’d like to meet?”
You’re sharp. You probably picked up on the focus here. It’s not about you. It’s about the person you re-connect with, OK?
What can happen when you do this? Almost anything! Mostly good. I’ve had clients tell me they found work, referrals to people they’ve been trying to reach for months, insights they needed, answers to problems they hadn’t been able to solve . . . you get the idea, right?
KEY POINT:
Reconnect with people you haven’t talked to in awhile — good things await you when you do!
“All things being equal . . .”
You know the expression. It’s said just before an UN-equal fact is about to be introduced in a conversation. That’s how many people are ‘wired’ to perceive reality — ‘similar with exception’.
Stand Out or Sit Down
Naturally, you want to ‘stand out’ from the crowd of your alleged competitors. And there are ways to do that. But most require time and money — the two biggie assets that no ever has enough of, right? Well, here’s how to save your money, use a little bit of your precious time and be seen as a ‘preferred provider’ of your problem-solving expertise.
Write . . . a “Thank You” Note
I get these. Rarely. But everytime I do, I am more impressed with the person who sent it and, (taking notes?) more inclined to do ‘something nice’ in return. I just got a great note from Jody Ferrer, President of The Perfect Promotion thanking me for a referral I’d made to her business. Included with the card was a smaller ‘bookmark’ branded for The Perfect Promotion. I am so impressed with Jody, her business and her business acumen that reflects her social skills.
KEY POINT:
If you want to ‘Stand Out’ . . . send a “Thank You” note!


